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STOP Bastardizing Masculine & Feminine Energy

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If you want to truly understand and appreciate
masculine & feminine, observe how a 6 year old boy plays with a 6 year old girl. It’s easy for me, because I have a 6 year
old boy. And let me tell you, you won’t have to teach
6 year olds what masculine or feminine is, nor would you need to give them a list of
301 rules to abide by. They do what’s naturally intuitive to them. If you observe their playful interactions
carefully, you’d see that they both give and they both take. She gives him a cheeky look, he gives back
a spontaneous yet comical display of humour. She gives him a wink, he gives her a flower he picked. The energy goes both ways, otherwise it doesn’t work. Polarity goes both ways, otherwise it’s just
a one sided fantasy. In this day and age, self proclaimed online
coaches are spewing all sorts of rules as to what you need to do to be feminine as woman. You have to lean back, be passive, receive,
you can’t initiate, you can’t give, you can’t do this and that. To me personally, I hate these rules. They are absolutely dumb. Forgive my passion, but that’s how it is. Because all these rules ultimately come from
a place of fear. And you’re not going to attract an abundance
of love, joy and passion into your life through fear. That just doesn’t happen. And in the process, it’s bastardizing the whole
concept of what masculine and feminine is all about. Look, it’s ok to have rules, sometimes as
a stepping stone between chaos from previous abuse & anxiety to proper attunement, but
having dogmatic or rigid rules should never be the end goal. You can certainly have rules, but just don’t
mix it up with the idea of masculine and feminine. If anything, rules can be a temporary stepping
stone until you have healed and processed the emotional trauma. Then you can let go of some of the rules that
no longer serve and move forward to better attunement. However, what I’ve noticed is that for many
women, these rules can often divert their attention away from true attunement to real
people, and real souls. In other words, these rules are slowing, hindering
and stopping their progress and growth. And I don’t want that for you. So sure, you can protect yourself by adopting
some of these rules. Sometimes protecting yourself is important. However, being an emotional turtle in its shell
isn’t ultimately going to help you establish emotional attraction and deep connection with
your chosen man. To do that, you need something else. You need to understand value, attunement,
attraction, banter etc. These are the main concepts our work and our
programs revolve around because these are the real elements that matter. Anyhow, thats enough of a rant from me. Remember be smart. And don’t get sucked into to rules.

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3 thoughts on “STOP Bastardizing Masculine & Feminine Energy”

  1. Viet Ha Le says:

    brilliant <3 After learning from several programs of you and Renee, I start to become more natural and intuitive in interaction, without having to follow and think about rules, which is the thing I absolutely love and feel thankful for you guys <3

  2. Deena Jones says:

    Totally agree👍

  3. yaknotnud says:

    I babysat my nephews a lot when they were very young, as babies and as toddlers. Both my sister and her husband were either sick or out of town so they spent a lot of time at my house. They were super, super masculine to the point of it being over the top and comical. I in no way would train them, teach them, or manipulate them to be that way. That came naturally. I'm sick of people saying it's a social construct. Some people may not be born masculine or feminine to match their genders, but I think they are outliers and not common.

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